(441) 「灵粮主题 TODAY’s Topic」：处理家庭婚姻冲突 How to Handle Domestic and Marital Conflict

「灵粮经节 TODAY’s Verses」：保罗给教会劝告说：「 … 但要免（不忠实）淫乱的事，男子当各有自己的妻子；女子也当各有自己的丈夫。丈夫当用合宜之分待妻子；妻子待丈夫也要如此；Paul advised to the church and said: “… a man not to have sexual relations with a woman (unfaithfully) … , each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband. The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband.」 （哥林多前书 1 Corinthians 7: 2-3 节）

「灵粮分享 TODAY’s Sharing」： 今晨在「今日圣言」里，读到鲍勃牧师和黛比加斯夫人 Rev. Bob & Mrs. Debby Gass 写了一篇 ，“努力经营你的婚姻” 的分享。牧者引用马太福音 Matthew 19: 5 节，提醒我们男女婚姻，是神所赐的 “二人成为一体“，要知道如何维持一个快乐的家庭（或是台湾两岸一家亲）。也就是灵粮主题要分享的，如何去 “处理家庭婚姻冲突” 。牧者举例解释道， 美国心理学家乔伊丝·布拉泽斯博士（Dr. Joyce Brothers）有这么说：”结婚容易，但成功地生活在一起却很难“。 那么你该怎么做呢？去识别必须要解决的问题，努力解决它们，并学会与其他问题共存！既然耶稣在马太福音19:6 节说 “神配合的，人不可分开”，那么当冲突出现时，你应该如何处理呢？这位心理学家引用许多处圣经节的教导，鼓励我们要努力经营你的婚姻：（1） “你们要彼此劝慰。”（帖撒罗尼迦前书 5:11 节）；（2）“要互相饶恕。”（以弗所书 4:32 节）“； （3）要互相代祷。”（雅各书 5:16节）；（4） “要彼此相顾，激发爱心，勉励行善。”（希伯来书 10:24 节）；（5） “要分担彼此的重担。”（加拉太书 6:2 节）；（6） “要彼此谦让。”（罗马书 12:10 节）… 等等。

「灵粮祷告 TODAY’s Prayer」：今日灵粮 Spiritual Food Today 也就引用使徒保罗在他的哥林多前书 1 Corinthians 6: 16-17 节里的教导 , 提醒家庭最大的冲突也就是淫乱或是勾结婚外人，跟大家在主的爱里相互祷告勉励：“岂不知与娼妓联合的，便是与他成为一体麽？因为主说：二人要成为一体。但与主联合的，便是与主成为一灵。” 因为身子就是圣灵的居所，家庭夫妻要和睦相爱，保持身心的洁净。神是圣洁的，不洁神就不能接近你。祷告奉主名求。阿门 !

In "今日圣言 Today's Word" this morning, I read an article written by Rev. Bob & Mrs. Debby Gass, "Working Hard on Your Marriage". This pastor cites Matthew 19:5, reminding us that marriage between a man and a woman is a God-given "two becoming one flesh", and we need to know how to maintain a happy family (or a family on both sides of the Taiwan Strait). That is what the theme of this spiritual food will share, how to "Handle Family and Marital Conflicts". As the pastor explained, the American psychologist Dr. Joyce Brothers put it this way: "It's easy to get married, but it's hard to live together successfully." So, what should you do? To identify problems that must be solved, work on them, and learn to live with other problems! Since Jesus said in Matthew 19:6 that "what God has joined together, let no man separate", how should you deal with conflict when it arises? The psychologist cites many biblical verses that encourage us to work hard in your marriage: (1) "Encourage one another." (1 Thessalonians 5:11); (2) " Forgive one another." (Ephesians 4:32) "; (3) Pray for one another." (James 5:16); (4) "Take care of one another, inspire love, and encourage good works. (Hebrews 10:24); (5) “Share one another’s burdens.” (Galatians 6:2); (6) “Be humble to one another.” (Romans 12:10) ) … and many more.

Therefore, 今日灵粮 Spiritual Food Today will quote this teaching of the Apostle Paul in his 1 Corinthians 6: 16-17, reminding that the biggest conflict in the family is adultery or betrayed with outsiders, with everyone in the Lord's love praying and exhorting each other: "Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, “The two will become one flesh.” But whoever is united with the Lord is one with him in spirit." Because the body is of the Holy Spirit Households, families and couples should love each other in harmony and keep their bodies and minds clean. God is holy, and an unclean God cannot get close to you. Pray in the name of the Lord. Amen !

(441) 爱心的 John 张皇卿 编写于 维克斯网站： Http://johnking9999.wixsite.com/website 和 脸书网站： https://www.facebook.com/johnking9999 Edmonton, AB, Canada Friday 08. 05. 2022