(491) 「灵粮主题 TODAY’s Topic」：夫妻应该相爱因为婚姻是神安排的 Couple Should Love Each Other as Marriage is God’s Arrang

「灵粮经节 TODAY’s Verses」：「创世纪 Genesis 2: 18-24 节，有一位牧者简述着说，“知道婚姻是神创始的，神造了一个男人，把那美丽富庶的园子交给他，使他修理看守。那人是全地的主人，他也负担着极大的责任，治理神所造的世界。不久神便发现一样美中不足的事，就是那人独自生活不仅寂寞孤单，而且有起什么事来没有别人帮他的忙。因此神认为，那人独居不好，神要为他造一个配偶帮助他。使他们能够恩爱一起，相助成为一家人。” 所以，神的儿子耶稣基督， 我们的救世主，在今日灵粮的经节里，也都在教导我们并鼓励，“夫妻应该相爱因为婚姻是神安排的”。马太福音经节里述说：“法利赛人来试探耶稣，说：人无论甚麽缘故都可以休妻麽？耶稣回答说：那起初造人的，是造男造女，并且说：因此，人要离开父母，与妻子连合，二人成为一体。这经你们没有念过麽？既然如此，夫妻不再是两个人，乃是一体的了。所以，神配合的，人不可分开。”; In Genesis 2:18-24, a pastor briefly stated, "Knowing that marriage was initiated by God, God created a man and gave him a beautiful and rich garden to look after and take care of it. That man is the master of the whole earth, he also bears a great responsibility to govern the world created by God. Soon God found a fly in the ointment, that is, the person living alone is not only lonely, but also has no one to help him when something happens Therefore, God thinks that it is not good for that person to live alone, and God will create a spouse woman for him to help him. So that they can love each other and help each other to become a family.” Christ Jesus, the Son of God, our Savior, in the quoted scriptures of today’s spiritual food, also teaches us and points that, "Couple Should Love Each Other as Marriage is God’s Arrangement". The verses explain, " Some Pharisees came to him to test him. They asked, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any and every reason?” “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? So, they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, what God has joined together, let no one separate.” 」(马太福音 Mathew 19: 3-6 节）

「灵粮分享 TODAY’s Sharing」： 今晨在「今日圣言 Holy Word Today」里，读到鲍勃牧师和黛比加斯夫人 Bob & Debby Gass 写了一篇，“神为你的婚姻提供帮助”的分享。牧者引用诗篇 Psalm 127:1 节，描述婚姻若不是有神的原有安排，也就不会有美好的婚姻结果。也就是「今日灵粮 Spiritual Food TODAY」主题要分享的，若是这样, “夫妻应该相爱因为婚姻是神安排的” 。鲍勃牧师给我们解释说道：没有人会比神更了解婚姻。祂不仅想出这个主意，还撮合了世界第一对夫妻亚当与夏娃。祂说： “若不是耶和华建造房屋，建造者的工作都是徒劳 …” 所以，让我们转向神的话语，看看若是夫妻间有了婚姻的问题，神能为你的婚姻提供的，是有什么样的帮助：

(1) 要乐意接受忠告。智慧的所罗门王在箴言 Proverbs 13:10 里说： “骄傲只启争竞；听劝言的，却有智慧。” 因此，你要在争论变成僵局、僵局变成全面危机之前，求告神向你所信任的朋友或顾问寻求建议。这需要谦虚，但回报丰厚；(2) 不要停止交谈。即使有些事情对你来说似乎很明显，也不要以为你的配偶会读懂你的心思， 你要祷告祈求神帮助。另外，不要有 “冷战” 。告诉你的配偶是什么在困扰着你，即使这意味着你们要解决分歧。只有当你不够在乎而不去表达异议时，事情才会支离破碎；(3) 让你的爱保持活力。继续祷告，求神帮助你建立牢固的婚姻，意味着你和同一个人一次又一次地坠入爱河, 相互礼让爱护。使徒保罗在腓立比书 Philippians 1:9 节写道： “我所祷告的，就是要你们的爱心在知识和各样见识上多而又多 ...。” 逃脱婚姻上的压力是不可能的，但你可以通过从日常事务中安排出休息时间来控制它。可以一起散步，看一部你们都喜欢的电影，去喝咖啡，做任何能使你们重新连接的事情。而且让你的孩子们知道你们抽出时间共度人生该有的夫妻间的爱慕欢乐。这不仅让孩子们学会欣赏这一点，还有助于他们将来建立自己美好的婚姻。大家星期五开心与周末愉快！

「灵粮祷告 TODAY’s Prayer」：「今日灵粮 Spiritual Food TODAY」 也就引用马可福音 Mark 10: 9-12 节和大家在主的爱里相互勉励祷告。鲍勃牧师在今日灵粮的分享里，提醒我们，“神为你的婚姻提供帮助”，就是要你建立自己美好的婚姻。信徒要牢牢记住，“夫妻应该相爱因为婚姻是神安排的”。所以，在这结语里，今日灵粮所引用的马可福音经节里，耶稣都在教导我们做他门徒的，尤其是有关婚姻问题和古代旧约摩西对休妻的教导，说：“所以神配合的，人不可分开。到了屋里，门徒就问他这事。耶稣对他们说：凡休妻另娶的，就是犯奸淫，辜负他的妻子；妻子若离弃丈夫另嫁，也是犯奸淫了。” 求神帮助我们一生也都能过着富有属灵的基督家庭生活，夫妻应当礼让相爱，保持神籍着我们父母给我们的肉体圣洁，做好人守住你的心，因为有圣灵居住在我们心殿里看顾着你的心思意念。若有心思恶念还在犯罪，当祈求神赦免我们的过犯而得释放。求神怜悯加添给我们夫妻间的爱护力量，能够谦卑顺服那藏在我们心殿里的圣灵，听从这保惠师的感触和引导。让我们成为恩爱的丈夫和妻子，维持一个蒙福而幸福的基督徒家庭。祷告奉主名求的，阿们！

In "今日圣言 Holy Word Today" this morning, I read the sharing of "God provides help for your marriage" written by Rev. Bob & Mrs. Debby Gass. The pastor quoted Psalm 127:1, describing that if the marriage does not have God's original arrangement, there will be no good marriage results. This is what the topic of "今日灵粮 Spiritual Food TODAY " is about to share. If so, " Couple Should Love Each Other as Marriage is God’s Arrangement". Pastor Bob explained to us: No one knows marriage better than God. He not only came up with this idea, but also brought together the world's first couple, Adam, and Eve. He said, "Unless the LORD builds the house, the builders labor in vain ..." So, let us turn to God's Word and see what God can provide for your marriage if you run into marriage problems, and what kind of help:

(1) Firstly, be willing to accept advice. The wise King Solomon said in Proverbs 13:10, "Where there is strife, there is pride, but wisdom is found in those who take advice." So, before arguments turn into deadlocks and deadlocks into full-blown crises, ask God to give you a trusted friend or advisor for advice. It takes humility, but the rewards are huge; (2) Secondly, do not stop talking. Even if some things seem obvious to you, do not assume your spouse can read your mind. Pray for God's help. Also, do not have "cold war". Tell your spouse what is bothering you, even if it means working out your differences. Things only fall apart when you do not care enough to disagree; (3) Finally, keep your love alive. Keep praying and asking God to help you build a strong marriage, which means falling in love with the same person repeatedly, with mutual respect and love. The apostle Paul wrote in Philippians 1:9, "And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight ..." It is impossible to escape the stress of marriage Yes, but you can control it by scheduling breaks from your routine. Go for a walk together, watch a movie you both like, grab coffee, do whatever reconnects you. And let your kids know that you take time out to share the love and joy of your life as a couple. Not only does this teach the kids to appreciate this, but it helps them build their own wonderful marriages in the future. Happy Friday and great weekend everyone!

In conclusion, “今日灵粮 Spiritual Food TODAY” would like to quote Mark 10: 9-12 and everyone encourages to pray for each other in the love of our Lord. Pastor Bob reminded us in his sharing of today's spiritual food that, "God provides help for your marriage" is to let you build your own to have a beautiful marriage. Believers should keep in mind that "husband and wife should love each other because marriage is arranged by God". Therefore, in this epilogue, in the verses of the Gospel of Mark quoted in today's spiritual food, Jesus is teaching us as his disciples, especially about marriage issues from Moses' teaching on divorce in the ancient Old Testament, saying: "Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” When they were in the house again, the disciples asked Jesus about this. He answered, “Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her. And if she divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery." May God help us to live a spiritually rich Christian family life throughout our lives. Husbands and wives should be courteous and love each other, keep the flesh that God gave us through our parents holy, be a good person and guard your heart, because the Holy Spirit dwells in you. This God’s Spirit watches over your thoughts in our hearts. If we still sin with evil thoughts, we should ask God to forgive our transgressions and be set free. May God’s mercy add strength to the love between husband and wife, and be able to humbly surrender to the Holy Spirit hidden in our heart, and listen to His touch and guidance of this Comforter. Let us be the loving husband and wife, who would maintain a blessed, but happy Christian family. Pray in the name of the Lord, Amen!

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